When Spirit Gave Me Comfort:


Around 2004 I was working with vulnerable young deaf adults in West Sussex and East Sussex. They needed help with everyday life. I really enjoyed the work and what it involved.

My husband was working as well and my parents looked after our daughters when he had to work late.

I remember one particular day. I was working until 7.00pm and my parents had the girls for me. I collected them about 7.30pm. I was so tired I was nearly falling asleep standing up.

My Mum noticed I looked really tired. I replied to her saying I didn't feel this job is going to work and fit in with the girls.

I was so tired I could hardly speak. 

My daughters have always been very astute and could see how tired I was. On the journey home I said I was going straight to bed as well when we get in.

I got the girls ready for bed and then flopped in my bed. I started crying because I thought if this job doesn't work out, and it wasn't, what was I going to do.

I was laying on my side facing the middle of the bed and behind me I felt someone sit on my bed. I instantly knew it was a spirit. I wasn't scared, I felt great comfort. Then I felt spirit stroke my head and with that I knew I was going to be okay and everything will work out. I thanked them and fell asleep.

This happened before I started spirit work as a medium. I didn't know who the spirit was but it didn't matter. I just KNEW the spirit was there to help me.

I gave up my job with sadness. When I did I said out loud to spirit/angles "okay what now?" a couple of days later I was walking home from town and I got a message from spirit to get the local newspaper out of the recycling bin. Back then it was a blue box with no lid. I picked out the soggy newspaper and looked in the job section. I saw an ad for a job, I phoned them up, got an interview and started a week later. I stayed there for ten years, worked with spiritual people and they helped my development to become a medium and work with spirit. They talked about stuff I hadn't even thought about and opened my eyes to many different things.

So remember spirit/angles are always around and if you allow them and don't go into fear it all works out in the end.

The job with the deaf young adults in Sussex was just a stepping stone to the next place I needed to be. Sometimes you could be in at a place for a short time or a long time.

Trust and it will flow

Fear and it will slow

Love and light ♥️ x

Fourth Sense To Becoming A Medium:


Knowing! I feel I have always used this sense from teenage years but it has just developed even more since I have become a Medium offering readings and healing.

Knowing, going with your gut and trusting. This is what I do. When I tell people things, not when I am working with readings or healing so not connected to spirit in a work way. They say “how do you know?” My answer is “I just know”. It’s like the experience I shared in my blog on page seven, Being in the right place at the right time.

Always listen to your knowing. How many times did you ignore it and then said “I knew that, why didn’t I say something” or you didn’t act on something because you second guessed yourself. Always trust when you just know.

Third Sense To Becoming A Medium:


My third sense was sight. When we moved house in Burgess Hill (same house as last time) after about four years living there I used to see a little girl spirit. To begin with I thought it was one of my daughters. It used to happen when I was standing in the kitchen and to the right of me was the hall way. I would be clearing up the kitchen after I had put my daughters to bed, then out of the corner of my eye I saw a little girl with blonde her jump down the stairs. I turned and was just about to tell one of my daughters to go back to bed but no one was there. I went upstairs to check if both of them were in bed and they were.

Then it started happening in the day. I would be in the kitchen (it always seemed to happen in the kitchen) and I thought one of my daughters had come up behind me to make me jump. I used to stand there smiling then turn round and go boo. Nothing! I did feel silly. I remember my daughters coming in and asking who I had just made jump. I just replied I thought one of them was going to make me jump but it must have been the spirit girl. This didn’t trouble them because it didn’t trouble me. When the girls grow up the spirit girl didn’t seem to appear after that; I think it was around the same time we did an extension to the house.

It was years later I found out who she was, I have written about her before in my blog on page six, Angels at work.

She is my healing guide called Sarah. She sometimes shows me herself as the little girl who used to play around or an adult. She always wears white and has blonde hair. She is a very gentle spirit/Angel.

Second Sense To Becoming A Medium:


This sense was really strange, I used to just get a whispering sound in my left ear. It would make me stop what I was doing at the time and look around. I was very blasé about it and then just carried on.

One time I remember being in a public toilet in Burgess Hill with my daughter and the whisper was really loud and strong, I couldn’t make out the words because it was too fast. I just knew spirit was communicating with me but I didn’t know what they were saying and why they were communicating with me.

The whispers carried on, now and again.

When spirit communicate with me when I do readings they communicate with me by pictures in my head (knowing) and automatic writing.

Someone I knew died last year very suddenly and this person has communicated with me with the sense of hearing. They shouted my name in my left ear. There were people around me so I did ask them if they had called me but their reply was no. I knew who it was straight away (knowing). The next time it happened with the same person I could hear every word they were saying. I was meditating at the time and they decided to communicate with me then. It’s always my left ear. I love it when it happens and I hope this develops more over time with my Medium work.